What is Your Vocation? What is Your Calling?

What is vocation? What is calling? Both are such broad terms they could fill an entire canvass with a faint beige – you know it’s there, but can’t really see it.

I really struggled out of college trying to find my “calling” and my life’s vocation, a search that kept ending in frustration and dead-ends. It seemed my calling was a box full of jagged puzzle pieces that didn’t fit together.

But over the course of this last year, now four years since I walked that graduation stage, I’m realizing that “vocation does not come from willfulness, it comes from listening” (Parker Palmer). Vocation comes from understanding what the everyday details of our lives are shouting. Vocation is so much larger than a job, more complex than a title, more intrinsic than a name that someone else gives us. Vocation is not based on a job, it is based on our deeply rooted identity; on a specific name that was woven into the fabric of our being from before we were even a blip on our mother’s radar (Jeremiah 1:15).

CALLING AND VOCATION DEFINED

To live our vocation, is to live an intrinsic calling that transcends circumstance. “Experiencing and living by a calling provides a fundamental orientation to everyday life” (Banks and Stephens). We must reorient our ideas that calling is only met through a specific activity or role in this world. Our calling will include roles and activities, yes, but it is so much greater, fuller, and richer. Calling and vocation is your entire life, not just a portion of it.

Fulfilling our callings does not need to be grandiose to be worth meeting. It does not need to be saving millions of lives to be worthy of our efforts. The best-served vocation is simply where “your deep gladness and the world’s hunger meets” (Buechner). A simple definition, yet so complex in this increasingly changing and moving world.

To begin down the path of vocation we must begin by asking the right questions of ourselves, to discover the right answers. We must tell ourselves the truth of whom we are, and who we are not, if we are to live out the freeing reality of our true life’s vocation. A job can’t answer these questions for you or me.

MY LIFE’S CALLING

Therefore here’s my calling. To be a man who lives with passion from his passion, inhaling God’s breath to breathe into others through my words, my writing, my leadership, my influence, my time, my resources, my prayers, and my whole being; a breath as powerful and life-giving as giving someone mouth to mouth.

In whatever job, no matter how mundane or grandiose, in whatever niche I occupy on this Earth, this is my calling.

What’s your calling?

Any ideas?

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Easiest Ways to Become Rich and Marginally Famous: Eradicate Traffic and Homelessness at the Same Time

Homeless With You While You Work
What if I said that you could become rich and marginally famous by fixing two major problems like homelessness and traffic?

Don’t think it’s possible?

Well have you ever been stuck in a traffic jam on the highway and wondered, gosh there must be a faster way?

Ever seen a homeless person on the corner street and wished you could do more than just give him a couple bucks and wish him luck?

Well then you my friend are the perfect candidate to take part in my new business/non-profit called Homeless Pool.

Last week, I paved the way to fame and fortune by cornering a very lucrative market of Holiday music, as I introduced the rockingest Thanksgiving Jingle this side of the Macy’s day parade. This week I’m completely outdoing myself by solving, oh just two little problems you might have heard of: Homelessness and Traffic.

Paul, what’s Homeless Pool and how does it fix my traffic and homeless problems?

First, great question. Second, let me tell you.

Homeless Pool is a service that pairs weekday drivers with local homeless people, creating a carpool literally forged from heaven.

HOW HOMELESS POOL WORKS

Traffic in LA

For a small monthly fee, you will have an assigned homeless person waiting for you every morning at your front door, ready to ride with you to your job. With your trusted companion sitting in your front seat, now you can watch that Red Sea part as you cruise down a magical piece of pavement called the carpool lane. Wave to all those selfish-single-suckers stuck in the freeway parking lot, as you and your homeless person laugh and drive all the way downtown.

When you arrive at work, your homeless person will spend there day outside surrounded by businesses, making their panhandling much more lucrative and then be back to the car by 5:00. Also, your homeless traveling companion will be paid quite handsomely by Homeless Pool. Thereby, allowing the homeless to work while you drive to work.

SOUND TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE?

It’s not. And apart from the financial and traffic-splitting benefits, imagine how both the business man and homeless man will benefit in so many more important ways as their relationship blossoms;  conversations enriching and teaching both sides. Lives will literally be changed, whilst in transit.

Homeless Pool – Say no to traffic. Say no to homelessness. Say yes, to changing lives.

If you want to sign up,  let me know in the comments below.

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Easiest Ways to Become Rich and Marginally Famous: Number Three – Thanksgiving Needs Music

I wouldn’t mind being rich and marginally famous. Seems better than destitute and unknown, that’s for sure.

The problem is, I just don’t want to do spend all that time and effort to make rich and famous happen. Maybe you like working 80 hours a week, climbing the ladder, selling your soul, yada-yada-yada. But not me.

So here’s the beginning of my Top Three Easiest Ways to be on the Fast Track to Fame and Fortunes.

And since it’s the day before Thanksgiving, I thought I’d start with a hit-rich-quick idea, fit for the season.

RICH AND FAMOUS IDEA: WRITE ONE CATCHY THANKSGIVING JINGLE

Thanksgivng Life-Saving

The Christmas market is saturated. But where are the November tunes? We have to listen to I’ll be Home for Christmas as we drive home in November and it just isn’t right.

Where are the weeks worth of songs, preparing our hearts, minds, souls, and stomachs with the Thanksgiving spirit? We just haphazardly stumble into this blessed day without any soundtrack, which doesn’t give us, the dead turkey who sacrificed himself, or the Pilgrims, due justice.

We need Thanksgiving carols.

That’s when we step in. All we need to do is just write one song, one revolutionary Thanksgiving masterpiece and we’d have the whole market. Then we could just sit back – drumstick in hand, and watch the royalties role in every November, for life.

THANKSGIVING LIFE-SAVING

So here’s one I’m working on one right now. I call it Thanksgiving Life-Saving. It’s going to be HUGE.

Here it goes.

“There was these Pilgrims. They were all starving. They saw all these natives. And watched them all harvesting…

Major guitar build up

Oh..Oh…Oh…

Can we eat some of your crops.

Oh…Oh…Oh…

Could we form some sort of co-op.

Oh…Oh…Oh…

We have blankets, we have guns.

Oh…Oh…Oh…

Joining together will be so much funs.

Guitar…Guitar…

Violin…violin…Oh wait…more violin….It’s raining violin…where did we get all this violin…

Drums…Crescendo..Cymbals…Cymbals…Cymbals…Done!

What do you guys think?

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What I’ve Learned About Marriage…and Super-Powers

The first thing I learned about marriage, is that it grants men their first legitimate super-power. The moment I slipped the ring around my beautiful wife’s finger – lighting struck, my true identity was revealed, and I was forever granted the power I’d always wanted.

I became Invisible.

As we walked hand and hand down the aisle – minute one into forever, all eyes were on my new-found-wife for countless, no-need-to-explain, reasons. I could’ve ripped off my tuxedo to reveal nothing but a radioactive-green Speedo, as I rode back down the aisle on a goat that was being lead by a clown on stilts. And other than the wedding photo that accidentally caught half a goat’s head, I could’ve gotten away with it easy.

GUYS, YOU HAVE THE POWER TOO

Walk around a mall, park, carnival, rodeo, or retirement home with your significant other, pass by other couples and just watch to see where their eyes go.

The other guy approaching, sure isn’t going to notice you. No way. The only time he’ll even catch a glimpse, is as he tries to calculate how an Invisible Schmuck like you, somehow got a beauty like her.

But the approaching girl won’t see you either. No they’re checking out your girlfriend as well, making quick calculations in their head of whether or not they think they are better looking, and most importantly, better dressed.

GIRLS, REALLY DON’T SPEND ALL THAT TIME FOR MEN

This whole time I thought girls spent hours getting ready to impress us guys. So it just never made sense why a girl had to paint her toenails so diligently or curl her hair with such precision, as I’ve yet to meet a guy who couldn’t stop talking about a girl’s freshly purpled toenails.

But now I understand why women take so long. It’s not about impressing us men – that doesn’t take much. No, it’s really about surviving the stares of their own kind.

A Friday night for a woman is like being front and center at Broadway play, with an audience full of female critiques salivating to point out obvious blunders in your outfit. One wrong shoe/jean combination and there will be terrible reviews going out across the city.

MARRIAGE IS WONDERFUL

I love my wife. I love marriage. And I love my new super-power. It sure makes getting ready easy, when you know, no one’s going to see you.

____

Guys, anyone else notice this super-power? Girls any disagreements? Any other super-powers relationships have given you?

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